I’ve been thinking lately about the nature of romantic interest. It’s pretty clear to me that the idea of ‘being in love’ has an awful lot to do with sexual attraction. The idea of ‘love at first sight’ suggests an hormonal impulse that feeds a normal heterosexual need to pair up, an action dominated by passionate desire that has little to do with intellectual of emotional compatibility.
The need for companionship in a spouse is slow to build and, as sexual desire wains, often a relationship ends before such is realized.
An unfair assessment of trivial youth? At my age I think I’m entitled.









